This post is for the general.No personal attacks.Or dedicating to anyone.But if you think it's specially for you.Suit yourself.
I KNOW.
Expectations.
Everyone expects something from everyone else.
Why??????.
What so good 'bout expecting stuff from others?.
Be it good results, good life, good relationships & so on & so forth.
Why?????.
Why cant all of us be contented & grateful for what we have?.
Everything has limitations.
There's only so much all of us can do to make our lives better.
So why must we do things to make others happy?.
Why cant we do things that will bring benefits to only ourselves & no one else?.
What's so good 'bout fulfilling other people's dreams?.
& all you do is sulking, do things half-heartedly & in the end.
Nothing good comes out from it.
Everyone has choices.
The main question is -
Will we ever make a good choice so that there's no regret in the end or otherwise?.
We have a thing call the brain.
So.
Use it.
& decide what you want in life.
For your own good.
Something that will not destroy your future entirely.
Everyone has dreams.
Regardless of how realistic or extremely far-fetched that dream is all 'bout.
What matters is that we strive to get what we want to achieve.
Simple.
Follow your heart, decide, follow your own instincts.
'Cause eventually it's your own life we're talking 'bout here.
Not your parents, friends, teachers or some assholes & bitches.
Your life.
Rule your own life.
Dont ever let others plan your life.
Dont.
You'll just suffer badly.
Expectations.
Parents are the most weirdest creatures on Earth.
One moment we look up to our parents as role models.
If you want to agree with me or not on this.
Yeah.
Anyway.
& one moment you just curse & swear at them 'cause they dont support your decisions.
That is.
To do what you love & have interest in.
Rather than having a back-up plan.
ALL THE TIME.
If your dreams are shattered or whatsoever.
What's the point of having back-up plans anyway?????.
Most of us are totally guilty of this.
Am I right?.
Why cant we as individuals.
Set ourselves apart from the norm & be different?.
Be outstanding.
Break all the barriers to get what we want.
Isnt that's better?.
Or rather.
Do something that you have a passion for.
Be it music, design, dance, art or whatsoever.
Singapore has no future for the arts scene?????.
Then you prove everyone wrong.
Work hard & make your dream happen.
What are human beings most afraid of?????.
Failures.
Yeah.
Like seriously.
When we've being hit by a setback once.
We HOPE that no such thing would ever happen to us again.
What the hell?????.
What kind of attitude is this anyway?.
Stop fooling ourselves anymore.
For goodness sake.
There's no such thing as perfection in this world.
If it ever exists.
There's no point for us to continue living.
Failures, setbacks, difficult times & war are what makes the world more colourful & worth living for.
These incidents make us become stronger individuals as we learnt from them.
& mend our lives.
So what if we fail once, twice or like forever to fulfill our own dreams?????.
At least we know that we are trying our best to improve.
Rather than putting ourselves down .
& then regret that what we want initially is just an illusion.
That's like the wrong attitude for people to have.
So yeah.
Do what you want.
Realise if what you're doing now is what you really want in the future.
If not.
Change it.
Before it's too late & you regret futher.
Just like me.
Wasted 2 years doing crap.
But now I got what I want.
& am determined to make my dream happen.
Listen to your heart.
Listen to your mind.
Listen to yourself.
For once.
'Cause we hardly listen to ourselves anymore.
Like seriously.
'Cause all we do is following the norm.
Listen to what others think is best for us.
Allowing others to decide your life.
Let them rule your own life.
Well.
It's time to change.
Take charge of your life.
Believe in yourself.
No matter what people think of you.
Be it the good or bad.
Ignore.
What matter most is that you're happy with what you're doing.
You just cant satisfy everyone can you?.